7 Word Origins That Might Surprise You

Deep summer is when laziness finds respectability. ~Sam Keen, author & philosopher I don't want to say I'm lazy, but I do want to take my foot off the gas a bit as we cruise through the summer. Instead of one of my normal "nose-to-the-grindstone" posts, I thought I'd be a bit more playful this month. And what would be more appropriate for a writer to play with than…words.

So today I'll take a look at a few words that we use on a daily basis and discuss their origin - which might be different than you think.


This is an easy one, right? We all know this grew out of the invitations we send each other on Facebook. When you accept, you've been "friended."

Not so fast.

The word "friended" was actually created a few years before Mr. Zuckerberg came on the scene - like 400 years before. The source: none other than the Bard himself, William Shakespeare.

He actually used it in several plays including this passage from Cymbeline:

"Frame yourself to orderly solicits, and be friended with aptness of the season."


Some incorrectly claim this is an acronym for "portable open database." But according to multiple sources, as related in this article in Wired News, iPod is not an acronym. It's a name coined by a copywriter (yea!) named Vinnie Chieco.

The story goes that in discussing the new player, Apple founder Steve Jobs continually referenced Apple's digital hub strategy. The Mac was the hub for the other devices that could connect to it. Chieco then began thinking of the Mac as a spaceship and visualized a smaller connecting vessel as a "pod."  When Chieco first saw a white, plastic prototype iPod, he immediately thought of the famous line from the movie 2001, A Space Odyssey: "Open the pod bay doors, Hal!"

Supposedly the "i" prefix has a double meaning - both "internet," as in "iMac," or the first person: "I," as in me.


As in having no money. This appears to have originated in the 1700's in the banking industry. Customers who had good credit would be issued porcelain tiles - much like today's credit cards - which would list the borrower's name and available credit. The borrower would have to present the tile every time upon every withdrawal. If the credit limit was exceeded, the bank teller would "break" the tile immediately.


This one comes from the Middle Ages when most huts had stone or dirt floors. People would scatter threshing - pieces of grain or hay - to warm the floor and make it less slippery. As people walked about the room they would shift the threshing around and ultimately push it out the door. A piece of wood or stone was then placed at the entrance to the house to "hold the thresh" in the room.


The French gave us this one. Literally from the french couvrir feu meaning to "cover the fire." Ironically, that's exactly the opposite of what we baby boomers understood when our edict was to come in when the streetlight CAME ON.


We have the Celts to thank for this one. It's a combination of two Celtic words: "slough" which means "battle" and "gheun" which means "cry."


Finally, what would a post on words from a copywriter be without examining the word "write."

The base origin is from the Old English writan "to score, outline, draw the figure of" and from the Proto-Germanic writanan meaning to tear, scratch." Other sources include the Old Saxon writan "to tear, scratch, write," the Old Norse rita "write, scratch, outline" and the Old High German rizan "to write, scratch, tear."

Scratching and tearing? That sounds about right to anyone who's sat in front of a blank piece of paper or computer screen and begged for the words to come. Usually the process involves scratching your head and tearing out your hair.

That's it for now. You'll excuse me so I can go back to "scratching" out a living.

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Anatomy of a Meltdown: Lessons in Crisis Management

Have you seen my website lately? Neither have I. Actually it's back up now, but due to a massive crash at my hosting company - IX Web Hosting - my site was down from Sunday morning through Thursday afternoon. That's right. Four days.

In my prior life as VP/GM for a global supply chain company, one of the first things prospective customers would grill us on was our IT disaster recovery plan. Apparently IX didn't get the memo.

Don't get me wrong. I understand nothing in life is perfect and "stuff" happens, but to be down that amount of time in this day and age is mind boggling and inexcusable. Luckily only my site is on IX and my email is on a different service so my business was only marginally interrupted. Many other IX customers weren't so lucky, as the screams of pain on the IX incident status page illustrated.

Despite the angst - and thousands of dollars in lost revenue from many customers - there are valuable customer service and crisis management lessons to be learned from this mess. I'm not just talking about the technical aspects of proper backup hardware and an effective recovery process. That's a subject some one else can handle better than I can. I want to focus on the way IX handled the crisis from a customer perspective - not good to start, better near the end. Here are my takeaways from the event.

1. Communication is key - No matter how bad the situation, always be open and honest about what happened and what you are doing about it. To their credit, IX had people handling the irate messages on their status board on an ongoing basis. Unfortunately, for the first couple of days of the incident, it appeared management was simply pushing these poor people up out of the trenches and into the line of fire without any ammunition.

Customers wanted to know what was happening and more importantly, when they were going to be back on line. The only answer these unfortunate folks were armed with was "we do not currently have an ETA." After a couple of days of that response, angry customers were doing everything but marching on IX with pitchforks and torches.

Finally on Tuesday, two days after the crash, IX posted a schedule for when each server would be restored and a way to determine which server you were on. Mine was scheduled for Thursday at 3 pm. I wasn't pleased, but at least I knew where I stood. Telling people what was actually going on and how long it was going to take had to be painful for IX, but it let customers know the end was near. My site was actually up a couple of hours earlier than promised, so there's that.

2. Focus on the problem.  In the first hours following the crash, the IX folks got sucked into dialogue about compensation and arguments over up-time claims. That did no good for either IX or the customer base. The message needed to be "all our effort right now is on solving the current problem."

3. Be honest. Quickly.  IX eventually put up a pretty detailed explanation of what caused the outage, but until they did, people were spewing all kinds of sinister theories. Sabotage, terrorist activity, disgruntled employees, plagues of Egypt. The lesson here, despite what Colonel Jessep said in A Few Good Men, is that people CAN handle the truth. And if they aren't told the truth, they will invent scenarios and theories that would make the folks at TMZ blush.

4. Provide corrective action. The damage that this crash caused to IX's business will be enormous. They might be able to stem the exodus of customers if they quickly come out with a detailed plan on what they are going to do to prevent this from ever happening again. When we had a problem at our supply chain company, customers would ask, "How did this happen? You're ISO certified!" I would respond that indeed we were but that certification didn't come from the Vatican. We were not infallible. However, we would correct our processes and guarantee that the problem would never happen again. IX still hasn't explained this final step. Their incident status page simply says "resolved" and the latest on the company blog is a Happy Holidays post from December 26th.

My reaction during the outage was that I was going to move my site off of IX as quickly as possible. Now that it's back up, I'm not so sure. If IX can provide a clear, reasoned plan on what happened, why it happened, and what preventive measures they plan on putting in place for the future, maybe I'll reconsider.

Have you had to deal with a serious issue from either the customer or vendor side? How did you handle it?


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21 Classic Principles That Lead to Success

The beginning of a new year is a time when people resolve to improve their personal relationships, to achieve success in their business careers and to enhance the quality of their personal lives. Lofty goals all, but not easy to achieve.

A good place to start is to follow some proven principles that have been around for over 70 years. In his landmark book "How to Win Friends and Influence People," Dale Carnegie (@dalecarnegie) detailed 21 common sense principles that have stood the test of time. Over 15 million copies of the classic publication have been sold since it first appeared in 1937.

Nearly 25 years ago I attended the Carnegie Course in Effective Speaking and Human Relations and then returned as a volunteer graduate assistant.  I can personally attest that the principles outlined in that course changed me dramatically and still form the core of my personal and professional life.

I can't think of a better way to start the year than to review those principles with you.

1. Don't criticize, condemn or complain

2. Give honest, sincere appreciation

3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.

4. Become genuinely interested in other people.

5. Smile

6. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language

7. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves

8. Talk in terms of the other person's interests

9. Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely

10. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it

11. Show respect for the other person's opinion. Never say, "you're wrong."

12. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically

13. Begin in a friendly way

14. Get the other person saying "yes, yes," immediately

15. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking

16. Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers

17. Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.

18. Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires

19. Appeal to the nobler motives

20. Dramatize your ideas

21. Throw down a challenge.

What do you think? Do they make sense to you? Can they help you to achieve your goals?